Get a Handle on the Evening Meal

Get a Handle on the Evening MealFor virtually all working women, what you accomplish during a day at the office is just a fraction of your daily work load. Before work, if you have kids, it’s generally a great rush to get yourself ready and them out the door, lunch in hand. And after work, many of you can be found standing in the light of an open fridge door, staring blankly at a variety of food containers, and having that age-old thought: What should you make for dinner?

The family dinner was the ultimate family tradition in the United States until the1970s and ’80s, when women’s role in the work force was on a consistent rise. According to a report, “A Century of Change in America’s Eating Patterns,” by the U.S. Department of Agriculture’s Economic Research Service, by the late ’90s the family meal was on its way out, with 47 percent of food dollars spent on food eaten away from home.

Today, according to this report, the importance of a family meal has resurfaced, considered by many as the glue that can hold families together through opening lines of communication and placing importance on spending quality time together. For many families dinnertime is the only time of day you actually have a chance to spend together. Today, there is also increased importance placed on nutrition and health; people are becoming more drawn to the healthy fare at farmers’ markets rather than the many processed food choices found at supermarkets and fast food joints.

And today, even though more women are in the work force than ever, women still do most of the cooking. Women are responsible for the family meal and want it to be healthy and appeal to all members of the family. No easy task.

But with the right amount of time invested in planning and a little shift in attitude, according to cookbook author Aviva Goldfarb, you can simplify dinnertime and even make it more fun. As a busy mother and the founder and CEO of The Six O’Clock Scramble, she has written cookbooks based on the after-work dinner frenzy and started a web-based meal planning service for busy home cooks.

Here are some tips from Golfarb on how to save time during the dinner rush hour:

  • Plan ahead. This is Goldfarb’s No. 1 suggestion for speeding up the nightly dinner routine and the basis of her food subscription service, which sets out a five-meal plan for the week along with a shopping list. “If you shop once and have all of the ingredients, you don’t have to think about what to make, which is the hardest part for most people,” Goldfarb says. You may have a stocked fridge, but without a plan and after a busy day at work, you may be the one squirming in front of the open fridge door. Set aside an hour over the weekend to plan meals and shop.

  • Keep meals simple. Even if you love gourmet cooking, leave the laborious meals for the weekends when you can actually enjoy the process. On weekdays, go easy on yourself. “Any recipe with 10 ingredients or more turns me off from the get-go,” Goldfarb says. “There are so many things you can make with very simple ingredients, and it’s often more appealing to the whole family.” Look for recipes with fewer ingredients and quick prep times, which most tend to list these days.

  • Get your kids involved. Delegating in the kitchen not only helps get dinner on the table faster, but it can also be quality time spent with the kiddos. And by giving them some kitchen duties, you’re actually doing them a lifelong favor. “The sooner they can cook, set the table, and do dishes, the easier their lives will be, and they are also developing good life skills for the future,” Goldfarb says. From the moment they can stand up, get them in there helping. Think of it as prepping your future prep cook.

  • Keep a well-stocked freezer. You can stock up on meats and fish, keeping them on hand in the freezer, as well as simple side dishes so you can focus on the main dish. Although fresh, in-season vegetables are the healthiest option, frozen vegetables can be a good go-to. And when you’re making dinner, sometimes you can double the main course and freeze it for another time.

  • Make cooking fun. Slaving away in the kitchen after a day at the office isn’t everyone’s definition of a good time, but according to Goldfarb, a little attitude shift can go a long way. “Try to enjoy the process, make it a fun event, chat with your kids, pour a glass of wine, turn on music,” she recommends. It’s amazing how much easier the dinner process seems with a positive outlook.


Aviva Goldfarb Recipes
To view recipes, click on each picture

Get a Handle on the Evening Meal
Caesar Salad with Chicken


Get a Handle on the Evening Meal
Apple and Brie Quesadilla with Mango Chutney


Get a Handle on the Evening Meal
Tortellini Soup with Spinach and Tomato

  • Cut the right corners. “Don’t feel like you have to be perfect,” Goldfarb says. “If you need to use some short-cut products, there’s a trade off between time and money.” She recommends things like chopped garlic in a jar, spice blends (with no salt), salsa, and grated Parmesan, among other things. And her favorite time-cutting kitchen tools include an immersion blender, a citrus squeezer, and a garlic press.

  • Try a meal subscription service. If you want to outsource your meal planning, a subscription service like Goldfarb’s Six O’Clock Scramble can be the perfect solution. For as little as $5 per month, you get five easy, healthy meals and side dishes laid out for you, and a shopping list to boot. She has more than 7,000 subscribers, and she claims that the meal plans can save people $75 to $100 per month due to good planning and less dining out.


Corinne Garcia is a freelance writer and editor living with her husband and two young boys in Bozeman, Mont. She has also written for Women’s Adventure, Christian Science Monitor, Northwest Travel, Pregnancy, Fit Pregnancy, and Fit Parent.




Get a Handle on the Evening Meal

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