Many women I meet describe themselves as being more collaborative than competitive by nature. But you have to wonder how much of it is nature and how much is nurture?
Being good in business requires an affinity for both competing and collaborating.
A failure to incorporate a balance of both strategies in your business plan could spell doom and disaster.
If you beat everyone up, there’s no one left to play with, but if you befriend everyone, and beat no one, no one will come out to watch you play.
Did you know that 80% of Fortune 500 female executives played team sports?
While men tend to play to win, women are often seeking a win-win-win.
I sat down with a woman who knows all about being competitive and collaborative in business and playing to win, Kathy Betty, Owner of the WNBA Atlanta Dream. We talked about the ripple effect of women entering and thriving in traditionally male dominated arenas like business and what that does for a community. Impact and influence that is truly inspiring.
As any sports star/CEO knows, leading a team is a lot like leading a business. Scroll down for Chic Tips on Balancing a Collaborative Nature with a Competitive Spirit
Practice Like it is Game Day
When the crowd is cheering and the arena is filled with fans and applause, it is natural to rise to the occasion, but what about when no one is watching? Champions enjoy victory because they play like it’s game day every day, because they know it is. Every impression counts. Every action matters. Be ready to be at your best before the customer walks in and after the camera stops rolling.
Record it, Reconcile it and ROI it
How can you know if you are winning or losing if you aren’t counting? Use metrics as a way to gauge what you have done and how well it is working. Clicks, conversations, calls, consultations - what are your metrics and how do you track them? Having a number to shoot for automatically increases performance and enhances job satisfaction. You’ll feel better about what you have done and find it is easier to discard the dead weight when you document and dissect.
Spice up the Everyday with a Friendly
Competition doesn’t have to mean a showdown. Match play is a fun reason to flex your muscles. Strike up a low risk playful competition in a casual work environment to show you are open to a challenge. A simple wager touts your bring it on attitude to shows others you are not afraid to play with the big boys and put your talents to the test.
Take More Shots
Know that not everything will be perfect. In order to win more you must play more, and this often also entails a little losing too. Taking risks, setting stretch goals and entering roles for which you might not feel ready are par for the course in this game. If your aim is clear, the more you do, the more you will get done. Don’t wait for the big shots, take the big shots.
Bag the Trash Talk
People change teams in competitive sports. They change companies and roles in the business world. The fluid nature of the marketplace means yesterday’s enemy could be today’s hot prospect. Avoid bad mouthing, opt instead for a double helping of what’s great about you.
Chic Caution: Don’t let your big vision eclipse the everyday
While accomplishing a lot takes guts and gusto, gold medals are not an everyday occurrence even for the most accomplished of athletes. The thrill of victory is no comparison to the fun you can have when you embrace and enjoy the whole ride.
I’d love to hear how you are making a difference and living the dream at the same time. Leave comments or send me an email.




Elizabeth Gordon is the founder and President of Flourishing Business®, an advisory firm for entrepreneurs that helps start and grow successful companies that will flourish in the new economy using a holistic approach. Corporate consulting, small business coaching, strategic marketing, business planning, leadership team facilitation and conference keynotes are just a few of the ways she has helped businesses around the world to thrive. Elizabeth is the author of the 39-week Amazon.com women in business bestseller The Chic Entrepreneur: Put Your Business in Higher Heels, which introduces...



